If you are still concerned with what people think, feel, say or do towards you (whether seemingly good or seemingly bad) then you are only concerned with yourself and not concerned with Kingdom Business 

The demonic spirit of offense is so deconstructing, divisive and damaging to our already poor state. This may very well be the hardest interworking of the believer to Trust God when everything seems ridiculous and offensive. But why am I offended? God, in His Grace2me would always make me ask Him, He is always ready and willing to deal with my sin in order that I would be healed. The answer God gave was always the same “because you want heaven now” yeah but don’t You say Lord I can have Heaven now because You Live In Me? “Yes my Love, I Am Heaven- But what you want is heaven as the world and your flesh sees it, all the other details that make a great place of worldly heaven. But this is not it.  The Way of Heaven is through Me my beautiful daughter and you know The Way of Christ is through suffering, not some pansy easy peasy peace that comes from people who cannot give it, hope which this world can’t hold, love which this world doesn’t have. So you fight in your flesh, and My Spirit will reveal to you The Truth because You are Mine and I Am Yours.”

Daughter of The King, What does The Kingdom of God say?

He says forgive as you have been forgiven (col 3:13, eph 4:32)

He says love covers a multitude of sins (1 Peter 4:8)

He says deny yourself pick up your cross and follow him (Luke 9:23, mark 8:34, Matt 16:24)

He says you no longer live (gal 2:20)

He says turn the other cheek (Matt 5:39, like 6:29)

He says give your enemy water (prov 25:21-22)

He says serve (1 Peter 4:10, mark 10:45, Phil 2:3-5)

He says abide In Him (1 John 2:6,John 15:4-10, col 2:6)

He says humble yourself (James 4:10, 1 Peter 5:6)

He says lay down your life (1 John 3:16, John 10:15, John 13:34, acts 20:28)

He says why would you gain the whole world but lose your soul (mark 8:36, Matt 16:26)

He says surrender (Jeremiah 38:20-21, Romans 12:1-2, james 4:7)

He says to Glory in our sufferings (Romans 5:3-4)

Joyfully His – Rachel